A mature Spirit knows there is value in EVERY life event. Blessings hide in the nooks and crannies of pain and pleasure, crises and calm, wounds and wellness. Before condemning someone for all eternity for a perceived cruelty enacted upon you, consider what may not have occurred in an alternate scenario. Who would not have been born? What may you have been less driven to achieve? Where would you be today? If you have not yet found a healthy place for difficult memories, trace them back to all the things it motivated you to do, not just the bad feelings it created. Give thanks for the journey and, if you can, thank the person. Release the rest into the ether and live out loud. Use the energy you've been withholding in fear and anger to create today's Divine sanctions. You are blessed.