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In your dealings with Spirit, discard your measuring devices. Do not be concerned with who walks more closely with Him, who worships and prays as much or in the same way as you, who is the better believer or follower, who is more or less worthy of Her love. Toss that scale and invest in a mirror. Hold it up and look for Divine light within your own soul. Think of ways to restore and build upon your own relationship with The Creator. Don't worry about what someone else is or isn't doing. God's got this!