People wonder how my sisters and I manage to stay close with relatively little in-fighting. One of my sisters describes it as being happily two-faced. If you have a problem with a sib, THINK before you speak. It's not very kind or necessary to tell someone 100% of what you think of them 100% of the time. If you THINK before you speak, you will be better able to determine if you're forcing your opinions, expressing your fears as facts, or coming from a position of genuine love and caring. THINK before you speak. Is it (T)rue - (H)elpful - (I)nspiring - (N)ecessary - (K)ind? If not, think again.