BLESSED GOODBYE SPELL
This spell is for times when we must say goodbye to someone or something. We're not talking about death --- more like your adult child has moved out or someone close to you has decided on a new gender identity or a new name. Perhaps your bestie is moving away. This is a time to show support and welcome the energy of a new situation.
ITEMS NEEDED
3 black or gray votive or spell candles (representing the old)
6 gold or yellow taper candles, dressed (representing the new)
A strong purifying incense like frankincense
A celebratory snack like cake and wine
WHAT TO DO
Arrange the candles in 3 triangles
Cast a circle
After enjoying your celebratory snack, think or speak about the scenario that is ending.
Walk counterclockwise around the candles as you light the gray ones.
Open your energy body to cleansing by chanting Om. Allow the energy to move from head to toe, from front to back, as it fills you with energy.
Moving clockwise, light the gold candles as you think or speak about the new situation for which you are making room. If you enjoy singing, sing your favorite song of welcome.
After you close the circle, move all 9 candles to someplace safe where you can watch them as they burn down and continue to meditate on them if you wish.